Secret agent James Bond 007 is cool and debonair and, always in command, especially when it comes to dealing with women. That is because he’s charismatic and impossibly charming. When Bond gives the lady “the eye” she becomes breathe taken, never yielding his confidence she surrenders to emotions that can hardly be quelled. He demonstrates strength and poise which is something that by nature alone, is ever so captivating.
There are certain rules that apply to gain an advantage when confronting a woman with erotic lust. Similar to engaging a non-professional lady, having an encounter sexually with a prostitute can be much more of a real sexual experience than just the paid for, run of the
007 gets the Casino Royale Babe Solange |
This natural selection of mating is apparent in all sexual contact, from one night stands to the process of matrimonial courtship. Concerning sexual relations with the financial arrangement as in having sex with a prostitute the conditions are the same, the only difference is that sex with the prostitute is a given. The interpersonal dynamics are never-the-less equivalent; the male and female are attracted to each other sexually. Sex appeal is what drives the emotions resulting in desiring intimacy.
Casino Royale - James Bond and Solange |
Considering these two scenarios, there is a common circumstance involved in both that cannot be overlooked. The sexual attraction is not a mishap.
Swooner Justin Timberlake |
The first scenario illustrates two men who enter a bar separately; one is polished, with self-confidence, dressed accordingly, and carries himself with a handsome swagger. The other man is not well dressed, has a sloppy appearance and has little or no finesses in his self-presentation which is not one of conviction. The second scenario illustrates the same two men in the exact same manner however they are entering a bordello.
The man who has a stylish character with the look of a winner is extremely charismatic, while the man who is un-kept, with less self-worth has no charisma. The women in both the bar and the whore house will be sexually attracted to the first man and probably will not even recognize the second man’s existence. The old adage – “she does not even know he is alive”. This is the natural law that governs the mating of many life forms.
Certainly, looks and desirability are not an issue – for instance when considering when a weed is reproducing more weeds. Still, in most instances, nature has its influence over which individuals of a species mate. However, we are not discussing the reproduction of weeds, or one cell life forms or the mere perpetuation of a species without much more reason than the result being a stronger and more vibrant species. We are evaluating the sexual reproductive behavior involving the species of humans, the most complex life form on this planet. Despite the underlying instinctive attributes of sexual selection, the human sexual experience is also governed by one of pleasure and often the physical appearance of the opposite sex only. Moreover, this is definitive in what is commonly termed as sport fucking or “A One Night Stand”.
Frank Sinatra, the meaning of the word "Swooner" When asked what he does when a woman cries in front of him "I cry with her," |
That said, good looks are not the slam dunk considering how men are found to be having sex appeal. This fault in this thinking can be best attributed to tennis star Andre Agassi’s infamous gaffe in the advertising for Canon Cameras, “Image Is Everything”. His image was certainly tainted when eventually the conclusion was it was the substance that was everything – not image.
Those “looks to kill” are not substance and if the well-groomed man cannot walk the walk and talk the talk he becomes not much different than the disheveled man. This is where personality and charm wins over the ladies.
That confident smile, eye contact, engaging conversation with wit and humor, and surely smooth dancing moves like Justin Timberlake will conquest the lady every time. It is the ability to make the lady laugh with great amusement while not losing her attention is what Casanova, Frank Sinatra, and Daniel Craig - 007 are so famous for. Their endeavors with women are known as swooning. When asked what does he do when a lady cries, Frank Sinatra responded, "I cry with her".
Heath Ledger as Casanova |
Once the art of swooning the ladies is mastered, a man could expect to be overwhelmed with the attraction of females to such extreme that he would prefer having conditional sex with a prostitute for the obvious reason being that those ladies are usually not known for becoming too emotionally attached. As Charlie Sheen exclaimed when being interviewed by reporters about his name being in Heidi Fleiss’s Black Book - among the many elite men of Hollywood. “But you could have any babe you wanted, so why would you pay the thousands of dollars for sex with an escort - prostitute,” His reply was blunt, “They go home”.
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